How to Get Ahead and Stay Ahead

If you do not work for yourself, it is imperative that you learn to be a good employee, or play the game as they say. Keep in mind, we all really work for ourselves since we sell our services and skills to companies. If you take the approach that you work for you, some of these may be a little easier to swallow. Just doing some little things can lead to a better position, or put you last on the list if there is a cut back. Here is what comes to mind.

1. Be very helpful and nice to new hires. It will get back to the people up top.

2. Always be positive in your interactions with co-workers. Do not complain or be negative.

3. Make friends and hang around with the people who are thought to be the leaders.

4. Have an opinion, but do not overdo it. Keep discussions like politics and religion to a minimum.

5. Get in earlier than your boss, at least once in a while. Stay later than your boss, at least once in a while.

6. Volunteer to take on an additional task or more work. You have time.              

7. Force yourself to speak in front of others in meetings. If nothing else, just ask a decent question. This is critical for success.

8. Do not be defensive or make excuses. If you are getting less than desirable or unwanted feedback, take it. You will survive.

9. Be pleasant, likable and optimistic. Be a good listener and show an interest in others by asking questions versus speaking all of the time. The more you try to impress others, the less impressive you are.

10. You do not have to participate in all of them, although you probably should, but do participate in company events and activities, off site and on site. Do not skip, the sometimes weekly, birthday celebrations.

11. Do your job well, get your work done quickly, and take ownership if you make a mistake.

12. Do not take mini-vacations with others throughout the day. You are always being observed.

13. Do not over do it on casual day. Staying casually sharp is better.

14. Never call in sick on Fridays. Monday too if you can avoid it.

15. And the number one thing you can do to win friends and influence people at work...

Bring in donuts or bagels once in a while, and spring for the flavored cream cheese!